State of Mind Performance Specialist Youth, Talent and Elite Sport
State of Mind Performance Specialist Youth, Talent and Elite Sport
Meet Denise Holland
Denise Holland is a State of Mind Performance Specialist for Youth, Talent and Elite Sport. She supports talented athletes and emerging elite performers to understand the state of mind behind clarity, confidence and flow.
A former international netball athlete, National Coach for Scotland Netball, England Superleague coach and author of PlayFreely® – The Spiritual Key to Athletic Excellence, Denise brings over 35 years of lived experience in high-performance sport to her work with talented athletes, coaches and parents.
Through PlayFreely®, she points athletes towards a fresh understanding of performance, one that does not rely on mindset training, mental toughness or techniques for controlling the mind.
Instead, her work helps athletes see where their experience is coming from in the moment, and how pressure, overthinking, fear of mistakes and the need to prove themselves begin to settle when state of mind is understood more clearly.
This understanding is especially relevant for young athletes in clubs, academies, universities and talent pathways, where selection, expectation, confidence and identity can become closely tied to performance.

PlayFreely® helps talented athletes see beyond pressure, fear of mistakes, comparison, selection anxiety and the constant need to prove themselves.
The approach is grounded in a simple understanding of the human experience. Athletes are not broken, fragile or lacking resilience. They already have access to innate clarity, confidence, wisdom and capacity. What often gets in the way is not the situation itself, but the thinking and meaning taken seriously in the moment.
When this is seen more clearly, performance becomes less forced. Mistakes lose some of their sting, feedback becomes easier to hear, pressure begins to settle, and athletes reconnect with the freedom, presence and instinctive intelligence already within them.

Through PlayFreely®, Denise supports talented athletes and emerging elite performers, typically from early adolescence through to university and pathway environments, including clubs, academies, regional and national programmes. She also works with the coaches and parents around them to deepen understanding of the invisible performance variable: state of mind.
Her work is especially relevant for athletes navigating:
• Selection and non-selection
• Fear of mistakes
• Loss of confidence
• Pressure from expectation
• Overthinking and comparison
• Identity and self-worth linked to performance
• Transitions into higher levels of sport
• The demands of talent and elite environment
What We Explore Together
Denise’s work is not about adding more techniques, routines or mental strategies. It is about helping athletes see where their experience is coming from in the moment, and how clarity, confidence and flow become more available when pressure, overthinking and insecurity settle.
Key areas we explore include:
• An athlete’s natural love for sport that fuels confidence and flow
• Understanding where performance comes from in the moment
• Why athletes do not need to control their thoughts to perform freely
• The difference between performing from clarity or from insecurity
• Navigating situations that do not go the way you want them
• Supporting coaches and parents around pressure and anxiety
• Helping young athletes reconnect with freedom, trust and presence
How PlayFreely® Supports Young Athletes
PlayFreely® supports talented young athletes and emerging elite performers as they navigate the inner demands of sport, including pressure, selection, mistakes, comparison, expectation and confidence.
Denise shares this understanding through workshops, mentoring, talks and her book, PlayFreely® – The Spiritual Key to Athletic Excellence, working with athletes, coaches, parents, clubs, academies, universities and national talent pathways.
At the heart of the work is a simple purpose: to help young athletes understand themselves more deeply, trust their natural capacity, and perform with greater freedom, presence and connection.

What Begins to Change
When young athletes begin to understand their own state of mind, they often see sport differently.
Pressure starts to make more sense. Mistakes lose some of their sting. Feedback becomes easier to hear. Confidence feels less like something to chase and more like something that naturally returns when the mind settles.
What continues to inspire Denise is the simplicity and sustainability of these shifts. In her work with talented young athletes, the most powerful moments are often quiet but profound: athletes realising they are not broken, that nerves do not have to define them, that overthinking is temporary, and that their best qualities are still present even when they feel under pressure.
This understanding helps athletes relate differently to selection, expectation, comparison and disappointment. It also helps coaches and parents see the young athlete with more perspective, patience, and connection.
At the heart of PlayFreely® is a simple invitation: to stop trying to force performance from the outside in, and begin to understand the freedom, trust and presence that become available from the inside out.
Testimonials
What people say about working with Denise
Stuart Lancaster
Former England rugby coachStuart Lancaster
“PlayFreely® captures the essence of what so many athletes and coaches are seeking—clarity, presence, and freedom to perform at their best. Denise supported me during a pivotal transition in my career, helping me to understand how to free my mind and reconnect with what truly matters.”
Natasha Swerdloff
Former National Table Tennis AthleteNatasha Swerdloff
“In PlayFreely®, Denise Holland shares the wisdom of years in elite sport and the light of deep spiritual insight. Her words carry the power to free athletes from the inner battles they were never meant to fight. This book is not just about how to perform—it’s about how to live. It’s a gift for the next generation and for all of us who care about their well-being.”
Matt Roberts
International High JumperMatt Roberts
“A book written with love—for the human behind the athlete. Peak performance can feel like a mystery for athletes who struggle—so close, yet frustratingly out of reach. Traditional methods offer glimpses, but the experience is often inconsistent and incomplete.”









